Day to day living should not be unsafe. If it is, it may be time to consider alternatives such as assisted living. Making the decision to move yourself or a loved one to assisted living can be difficult, but the benefits may surprise you.
Although most older adults express the preference to age in place at home, many find themselves happy that they made the move. Increasing difficulty in performing daily tasks such as managing medication, bathing, dressing, mobility, shopping for and preparing meals, home upkeep and maintenance, and transportation can lead to feelings of frustration and discouragement. Decreases in activity, stimulation, socialization, and nutrition can leave an individual even more frail and prone to illness or accident. Some older adults hesitate to burden family, friends, or neighbors with requests for assistance and either attempt to provide for their own daily needs or do without. Many seniors remain at home until the idea of making a move, even if they feel that it would be beneficial, is completely overwhelming.
Assisted living communities encourage residents to maintain as much independence as they are safely able, with availability of assistance right at hand when needed. This enables them to move more confidently through their day, knowing that help is nearby. Medication management, bathing and dressing assistance, nutritious meals, transportation to medical appointments, scheduled activities, and opportunities for social engagement are standard services provided in assisted living communities, though the specifics of provided services vary among communities. Licensed nursing staff oversee aides in the provision of care and assistance with activities of daily living (adls). Family members are able to focus on their relationships with their older loved ones, rather than serving as their caregivers. The resident feels more independent and freer from the need to rely upon their friends and family to provide their care.
Older adults who make the move to assisted living before an emergency forces the decision have a higher level of care and a much more positive transition and experience than those who wait. If the person feels that they have input and choice in making the decision, it allows them to feel more in control and accept the changes in a more positive way. Receiving assistance and services earlier also improves the likelihood that the individual will improve their health and wellness to a higher degree, remain stronger and healthier longer, and delay a move to a higher level of care longer if at all.
While having the conversation to transition to senior living can be difficult, some have benefitted from considering the following:
- Include your primary physician and financial advisor in the discussion
- Assure your aging parent that their safety and well-being is more important than leaving a legacy or inheritance
- Contact and visit several communities before a critical need arises. Compare their services and amenities. Ask for references to contact about their experience with the community. Review their website and social media pages for insight into their culture and environment.
- Consider a temporary stay, if possible. Some communities allow potential residents to “try it out” for a period of time before committing to a permanent move.
- Encourage the older adult to be as involved in the decision as possible. Their sense of control and involvement will better ensure a smooth and positive transition.
To learn more about senior living options for yourself or a loved one, contact Greenbrier Assisted Living at 580-233-1331 or visit our website at www.GreenbrierVillage.org.
